How to Plan a Small Wedding That Still Feels Big
At Reverie Picnics + Events, we believe small doesn’t mean less. In fact, micro weddings and elopements allow for something even more powerful: intention, intimacy, and unforgettable beauty. Whether you're saying "I do" with just your closest people or planning a scaled-down celebration with style, here's how to plan a small wedding that still feels grand in all the right ways.
1. Start with Your Why
Smaller weddings give you the chance to focus on what truly matters—your connection. Whether you're dreaming of a mountaintop vow exchange or a backyard garden dinner party, begin by asking:
✨ What kind of experience do we want to have?
✨ How do we want our guests to feel?
✨ What traditions matter to us—and which don’t?
This mindset shift leads to a celebration that feels authentically you.
2. Focus on Quality Over Quantity
With fewer guests, your budget stretches further. That means you can elevate the experience—luxury rentals, elevated tablescapes, multi-course dinners, live music, or custom florals. It’s about doing fewer things really well rather than more for the sake of scale.
3. Get Creative with the Setting
Small weddings open up new possibilities:
An alpine lakefront at sunrise
A modern Airbnb with architectural charm
A family cabin with emotional ties
A vineyard, greenhouse, or even your own backyard
Fewer guests = more location freedom.
4. Make It Personal
From hand-written vow books to signature cocktails named after your pets, smaller celebrations give you space for those one-of-a-kind personal touches. Think less about what's expected and more about what reflects your story.
5. Don’t Skip the Professional Help
Even intimate weddings have a lot of moving parts. Working with a planner who understands small-scale events ensures your day runs smoothly and beautifully. At Reverie, we provide not just coordination—but creative direction, styling, and vendor support to bring your dream day to life.
